But the some sum of our conversation was that people want to feel valued in a relationship. This in turn causes us to do some things that are not always to our advantage, and to think things that are not always accurate in our dating. In fact as I recall we were able to trace much of the game playing and confusion of relationships to this very motive. For simplicity (though I don't know if it simplifies anything) I will refer to this as Rule #1. With that in mind I will proceed. I'm not sure that I will have all the answers on my first at-bat, but I will try to update this as it becomes clears. (thus I am using this google product, instead of other logical choices) The 17 Secrets to the Male Psychology

1. Men seek out relationships that make them feel trusted and respected.